I've been praying and thinking over something that is really confounding me.
A few weeks ago, I went to confession and it was a pretty typical confession for me. "Forgive me, Father, for I have sinned, it's been four months since my last confession so on and so forth" and then I told the good monsignor my sins starting with the ones that I feel affect me most or are more severe.
When I was done giving my confession, he says to me, "in regard to your sin of [such and such], typically, the main cause of that sin is because of [such and such.]" (You'll forgive me if I refrain from spilling all of the beans. Those who know me well enough can figure it out but I would like the rest rest of you (like my mom) to still think I'm sweet and innocent.) He then asked if I felt that was the situation in my case.
I thought about it for a moment and then said, "No, Father, I don't think it is true in my case because of [such and such.]"
After a pause, he then said, "okay, in that case, for your penance, I want you to pray and ask God why you are drawn to that sin."
Son of a gun!! What's wrong with ten Hail Mary's?!?!
So I've been praying on this and, frankly, it's been troubling. Why do I do this?? I understand the ramifications of sin and I understand that sin injures my relationship with God and separates me from Him. I want nothing more than to be pleasing to God. I want to be a saint.
But, no---I know what is pleasing to God but I always seem to do what is not pleasing to him. I'm not the only one who has wondered why they sin. I think that's why one of my favorite Bible quotes is when St. Paul says, "I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate." (Romans 7:15).
I do know this much though---it was a very good penance because I has kept me thinking about my sin--and not in a guilt ridden sense or anything like that--but making my tendency to sin and especially--to steer towards this particular sin. I think this, in turn, has caused me to stay away from this sin when in the past I may have fallen into temptation.
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